Ladies, ways of keeping that man interested
This is one question that most ladies do battle with so much after they have had sex with that dream man or have met a new guy.
If your intention is to engage in a healthy, meaningful relationship with this individual, there are some ground rules for what it takes to accomplish that in the long-term game.
For starters, every stable, committed relationship has to have common ground.
- Don’t be to clingy
One of the worst things that you can do is to act clingy on the guy.
Men can sometimes be commitment phobe and by you acting clingy, you are just setting up yourself to being hurt, reason being that hes going to run and never look back.
For sure keep him close and give him a reason to think you’re still very much interested, just give him some breathing room while doing so, and don’t put too much pressure too soon.
2. Tease him
If you ask yourself how to keep a guy interested after sleeping with him, the first thing you need to know is that your sex life doesn’t start and end in the bedroom.
Make sure you always seduce him, and learn how to build sexual tension between the two of you. It means that you should try to get your man horny just by teasing him.
3. Be yourself
Men love ladies who are confident and real. you are not going to pretend to be someone that you are not and expect him to stick around. at point hes going to figure it out and leave.
Don’t try to hard to impress him. You shouldn’t change yourself for anyone, let alone for a guy you’ve just slept with. Whenever you are starting a new relationship, you need to make sure to keep your integrity and to keep your personality intact.
4. Be spontaneous
Some guys tend to chicken out the moment they feel us getting closer and expecting more, even if they want the same things.
Give him time to realize that he most probably wants the same things as you, and don’t cling too much (but stay close).
So things should not be really tensed around you two, behave like 2 normal people would without any weird feeling attached.
5. Don’t expect to much just because you were in his bed
It is a fact that both men and women view sex differently. For men, sex is just physical and that’s just it , there is no other meaning to it while for women, its something with a deeper meaning and as part of there love life.
This is because women tend to be emotional beings while men are logic thinkers.
So just because you two had sex, that might not mean a thing to him. To avoid a lot of trouble and losing him, don’t expect to much from him.
By not expecting to much you get to hit 2 birds with the same stone, you get keep the guy coming back and you also doing yourself a huge favour.
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