How to spice things up in the bedroom
So you have been at it and things have not been as lit as it used to be. your sex life is starting to become boring, but neither of you is trying to change the situation.
You are not going to cheat on your spouse or partner just because things are not so exciting. so if you have been wondering on how to bring back the fire, then here are a few tips to help you.
Try new positions
There are a lot of positions to try out from, so if you have been getting bored, try out something new.
From the numerous positions, you can pick what works best for you two without causing injury to anyone.
Trying new positions will always make you to look forward to your love making sessions hence making it exciting.
You don’t have to follow you sex schedule to actually have sex. You can always have sex at anytime as so long as you have the space to do that
This will make you be ready at any time, hence ruling out all the bored because there is no routine to doing that.
Be proactive and take charge
Everyday is not a Sunday, you as the woman can also initiate the sex and take charge.
Who said that its only men who are supposed to initiate sex? ladies its time that you initiated the sex and took charge of it.
Tell him how you want it, guide him around your body, at the end of the day its all about the pleasure. So if you haven’t been doing that, you can try it.
Flirt with your partner
When it comes to intimacy, the stimulation of the mind is a great component. Always flirt your partner even if together. Get descriptive as possible, show him what hes been missing such that when he gets home, he is in the right mood.
Invest in lingerie’s
Ladies appearance matters, the way you would dress up to attend that date with him, do the same for the bedroom.
Invest in proper lingerie, such that when he sees you in that, he is psyched up to make the experience a pleasurable on.
Try out toys
Truth be told most men are never open to trying out toys. There is a misconception that toys are for self pleasure but that’s far from the truth.
You can use the toys as a couple, first have the discussion with you partner and if he agrees to it, have him try it on you. Trust me the results will be mind blowing.
Try out the few tips and I’m sure that your sex life will be back to where it was.
Charline Carren is a blogger and an editor at Tech for Development. A trained Public Relations and communication specialist.
My passion for writing stems from the need to always provide solutions to peoples problems and sharing my opinion with my readers. I’m a proud content creator, communication and media strategies developer and a great public speaker.