4 Things you should under no circumstance tell your partner
For any good relationship to work and meet its end goal, there must be trust. Trust just doesn’t come easily, it is earned. This will always remain to be the silent and golden rule in every relationship. Be honest and truthful to your partner.
However, there are certain things that are not meant to be spoken out loud. This is because they carry with them a lot of baggage or the consequences of letting them known to the public is far much greater than anticipated.
When it comes to relationships, there are certain things that you must keep to yourself lest you get heartbroken for no apparent reason.
Here is a list of some things that you are not supposed to tell your partner.
Your friend’s secrets
As tempting as it may seem, you are not supposed to share their secrets with your man or lady. Yes, its good that you talk about everything but that shouldn’t include secrets. There is a reason why the secret was told to you in confidence and privacy so keep it that way.
Too much details about your previous relationships
There is a reason why your ex is just that and why they remain as the past. yes, honesty is important but under no circumstances should you give to much details about your past life.
The reason being there are certain ghosts that can ruin the perfect thing that you are having so keep them out of your life.
Compliments you get from other guys
Telling your partner about the compliments that you get from other guys might just work if you are trying to make him jealous. In the long run, it’s not a healthy game to engage in.
Your man will feel like you are comparing him to other men and it will bruise his ego. Before you start doing that, you might need to rethink that.
Rumours that you hear about him
If whatever it is that you are hearing has nothing to do with your relationship, then just sweep it under the rags.
The truth is some of these rumours have brought down many great families and you wouldn’t like to be part of statistics. So, if you know that it will hurt your partner then keep it to yourself. A little privacy doesn’t hurt.
Charline Carren is a blogger and an editor at Tech for Development. A trained Public Relations and communication specialist.
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