3 Mistakes women make when it comes to sex
For the longest time possible, you have not been in any relationship, then this guy comes along and he sweeps you of your feet and you are so into him. Before you know it, you are already having sex with him.
He then says that he is not ready for a relationship though he is into you. You are then left wondering what that even means. So you go on a rant about how men are dogs and how this particular man is a player and he was just after smashing and leaving on the first train.
Hold that thought sister, has it ever occurred to you that you may have been the source of the problem? that it was actually your fault?
You might be wondering how, here are the reasons why you might just be to blame though I’m not saying that in all cases the man is innocent.
Below are some of the things that we ladies do, that are the causes of our problems;
1. Not saying anything about what it means for you to share yourself with him because you keep telling yourself that he feels the same way you do and you assume he wants a relationship because he wants to sleep with you. this may not be the case
Ladies lets get one thing clear, sex is just sex for men. the sooner you get this into your mind, you will never make such assumptions in this life
2. Not saying anything about your feelings or about wanting a relationship because you thought it might sound awkward.
sometimes you go to put it out there, state your feelings at the end of the day, whats there to lose? if he feels the same you might actually have a beautiful relationship, if not you also move on with life.
3. Not knowing exactly how you feel and what sleeping with him will mean to you until after you sleep with him and a whole rush of feelings hits you like a tidal wave.
There is nothing as pathetic as not knowing what you want especially in relationships. This might sound very harsh but its the reality, no man wants a confused girlfriend.
You have to ooze of confidence and know what you want to conquer anything in this world
Charline Carren is a blogger and an editor at Tech for Development. A trained Public Relations and communication specialist.
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